Love! Valour! Compassion!

There are thousands of words that can be clubed with Love but why I have put Valour and compassion.. simply not because it was a movie title, but for the reason that Valour and compassion are very closely associated with love; one should say they are closely interwoven.

Love is an undefined word which carries lots of meaning! Love is the destinatination for people who forget their ways.. Love is a feeling which grows from within.. Love is pure. It is a two way process and requires an end object to complate the chain.. It is a flow which is free to every heart.. every soul.. to the whole Universe!

Valour means boldness or determination in facing the facts of life. Love needs confidance to stand by what you think.. What you promise and what makes your love complete. Valour adds meaning to your Life. You need to be deterministic for what you need in life. You need to show extra boldness to achieve that. Love requires constant caring and understanding.. determination and a passion to prove yourself.

Compassion is a tedious word to understand. It carries a very deep meaning. Compassion is a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. Love gives you happiness, love never give you pain but you yourself creates such circumstances that at some point you start feeling pain just because of extream care, concern and Expectation.

Relationship

Relationships are not about give and take.. its about sharing. Sharing all your happiness and sorrows, sharing your dreams and caring about each other. Law of love is almost like Law of energy which says," Energy can neither been created nor destroyed, but it can be transformed from one form to another". Love is not generated, it can not be bought; it is transformed from friendship, care and togetherness..

Every relationship rests on three legs: Accepting, Supporting and Challenging. That's really it, isn't it? You want your relationships to be grounded on accepting each other as you are. On supporting each other through the inevitable ups and downs. On challenging each other to become more, to grow, to flourish.

Being in relationship is all about how closer you are with life... Sacrificing, adjustments and compromises are all different.

The sacrifice which causes sorrow to the dore of the sacrifice is no sacrifice. Real Sacrifice lightens the mind of the doer and gives him a sense of peace and joy.

Adjustments are the most required part in a relationship, small changes for each other in your daily routine can make your relation stronger.

Compromises are not adjustments. Relationships breaks if the base of the compromise is not realistic. Understand the depth of emotions before you make a compromise. You cant make others happy if you are not happy.

Realtionship is not about expecting, but it is all about what you can give without getting hurt and without a thought of feeling guilty about not doing something for yourself. Give.. do your best, please people, be down to earth BUT dont anyone hurt your self esteem, your inner soul, your morale. You are your own designer, your own creator; if you dont love yourself, you cant love others. If you don't respect yourself, others will not respect you.

You learn lots of things from relationships... and mind it - no relationship should make you feel bad... and life does't stop if things dont work out.

Johney walker said," Keep Walking", ... The show must go on...

October 26, 2009 07:15 AM