Every relationship rests on three legs: Accepting, Supporting and Challenging. That's really it, isn't it? You want your relationships to be grounded on accepting each other as you are. On supporting each other through the inevitable ups and downs. On challenging each other to become more, to grow, to flourish.
Being in relationship is all about how closer you are with life... Sacrificing, adjustments and compromises are all different.
The sacrifice which causes sorrow to the dore of the sacrifice is no sacrifice. Real Sacrifice lightens the mind of the doer and gives him a sense of peace and joy.
Adjustments are the most required part in a relationship, small changes for each other in your daily routine can make your relation stronger.
Compromises are not adjustments. Relationships breaks if the base of the compromise is not realistic. Understand the depth of emotions before you make a compromise. You cant make others happy if you are not happy.
Realtionship is not about expecting, but it is all about what you can give without getting hurt and without a thought of feeling guilty about not doing something for yourself. Give.. do your best, please people, be down to earth BUT dont anyone hurt your self esteem, your inner soul, your morale. You are your own designer, your own creator; if you dont love yourself, you cant love others. If you don't respect yourself, others will not respect you.
You learn lots of things from relationships... and mind it - no relationship should make you feel bad... and life does't stop if things dont work out.
Johney walker said," Keep Walking", ... The show must go on...
October 26, 2009 07:15 AM
hey sweetheart i loved every bit of what u have cited down....may god bless u with all the love in this world. I would like to jot this especially for u wonderful fren- LOVE for friend is the power of understanding each other, it is the intangible yet infinitely powerful bond that binds two human hearts together, it is the synthesis of mutual understanding, care and concern. In friendship there is no room for egoism, selfishness and possessiveness. Friendship builds up people by providing good advice, companionship and support. Loyalty is the hallmark of every real frienship. A shoulder to lean on in times of trouble and someone to weep with in times of sorrow - these are gifts of friendship. It is not measured in quality , but in depth and quantity. There may be lots of disagreements and arguments, but there is never any bitterness, and fights are soon made up, forgiven and consigned to history. A good friend does not rake up the past and tally the wrongs. Rather, a friend is one who glosses over the bad patches and remembers just the shared moments of both laughter and tears. When we pamper friends we pamper ourselves because friends are gifts we give ourselves.
ReplyDeleteU R A WONDERFUL GIFT TO ME......REBINA
lol..does he even understand the meaning of friendship?? And talks about give & take..
ReplyDeletefriendship is pure and love is immortal..dont make these two god's gift things like hell.
First learn what is friendship and what is love. Don't copy paste and spread fakeness all over. You're a curse on earth..don't even faith and trust over anyone..and talks so big.
never consider anyone small and weak. Stop doing illegitimate and illogicl things with people in life.We all have seen you throughout how mean and cheap you are.